Sighting

Ive never actually done one of these before; so please bear with me..

So you were this young, slim, white guy at the dome last Friday that appeared to be in their early to mid 20’s, who I (the young black guy, wearing the black bandana patterned t-shirt, along with the iced out chain around my neck) happened to ask if you knew where I might acquire some party favors (Particularly Mo.) You had short brown hair, and a small mustache (I believe.) Your eyes were a lighter color, and you seemed to be around the same/or at the very least a similar height to me from what I was able to tell (i’m 5’9-5’10.) I didn’t have the presence of mind to pay attention to your outfit at the time; and it really didn’t help that it was a bit dark at points throughout the event. There was also a lot of stuff going on simultaneously, so thats unfortunately the best I can do regarding a physical description. There’s probably more I can say to describe you a little better; but I’m admittedly far less confident on those details so they’re not worth mentioning. I’d prefer to describe you as accurately as possible; as mixing the details up will ultimately defeat my entire point catch writing this.

What I can confident say however, is that you came across as a really sweet guy; and although you admitted you weren’t able to help me get what I wanted due to your connect being unable to make it to the dome that evening, you did offer to give me a connect that I could use outside of the event in the future. Foolishly I declined your offer. It really isn’t something I do l too often anyway; so I know I really didn’t need a new plug, but in that moment, there was also a lot going on in my head, and I really didn’t give it the amount of consideration I probably should have. It didn’t even occur to me that I might (and eventually did) come to regret not actually taking you up on that offer either. In retrospect I feel really dumb for turning it down; because to be completely honest, I didn’t really approach you with any expectation that you were actually going to be able to help me that evening. Prior to us meeting, I already made countless trips around the dance floor, asking around with no success.. and I really didn’t have any reason to believe that asking you might bring me different results either.. There wasn’t anything about you that I could see beforehand, that suggested you’d be able to help me acquire what I was seeking. You didn’t even appear to be rolling from what i could tell; and you also seemed to be on the dance floor by yourself when I came up to you, so I didn’t really expect you to be able to point me in the direction of any sellers either. I figured asking you definitely couldn’t hurt tho, so i did; but if i’m really being honest, the truth is I only decided to ask you was because I thought you were cute lol.

Now if that was it, I wouldn’t be writing this rn, all while holding onto this extremely unrealistic hope, that you might somehow stumble upon this post lol. However, in the brief interaction we had,  I did get the impression that I for once, might not actually be barking up wrong tree for a change lol.  I’m sure the way you ended up slightly stroking the back of my hand while we were talking/as well as my back when we parted ways, played some role in me reaching that conclusion; but those weren’t the only things making me think that. There was also an intensity to your gaze, that I honestly felt I might have been returning to you as well during our brief encounter.. and if I was in fact giving you that same intense eye contact, I know it was exclusively due to me finding you so attractive. Now with that being said, I’m not delusional enough to completely run off with this idea, that our brief moment of intense eye contact/unnecessary (but certainly welcomed) physical contact, actually meant anything I believed it might have meant. (Hence why I wasn’t confident enough to actually just straight up ask you in that moment.) Honestly for all I know, that could just be how you get whenever you’re really faded. Though, you didn’t really seem too intoxicated when I was around you; but I also don’t always accurately or reliably pick up on such things, so it’s hard to really know for sure.  There were a couple other things during our brief interaction, that also further perpetuated my impression that we both might play for the same team lol. However due to how long this is becoming, it’s not worth getting into. I will admit they did definitely make me second guess running off as quickly as I did though..

So if I am at all correct in my brief assessment, then I certainly do regret declining your offer for a plug;  because I realize it might have been a smooth way to potentially get your number lol.. or if nothing else, it could have been a nice reason to talk to you a little longer, and hopefully get out your name at the very least. I was under the impression I would probably run into you a second time before the night was up; but clearly that didn’t happen, because i’m posting here on missed connections instead lol. So if by any random stroke of luck, this somehow reaches you (and I wasn’t grossly misinterpreting your behavior/body language) then I’d love the opportunity to actually talk to you in depth, and get to know you a bit

I’ll cross that bridge when I get there lol.