Sighting

Feels like a reverse Cinderella except I don’t have a shoe…

Shot in the dark
We went out on 1 to 2 dates over a decade ago. Met on one of the earlier dating apps, match, plenty of fish, or okcupid. Chatted for a few weeks before we finally met.
I was between 24 to 26 and you were around 30 to 33 at the time.
You collected show cars and loved to talk about them.
You had 2 kids started young, (i believe the oldest was between 10 to 13 at the time) you waited a bit to bring them up. When I asked why they hadn’t come up sooner, you said something about wanting to have me get to you as an individual first, not just a dad.
You were divorced, (ex wife was not the mother of your kids)
You were living in NH area or within approximately a 30 minute drive of Lunenburg, MA. (Believe we got dinner in Lunenburg for at least 1 date)
At the time I believe I wasn’t ready for the kids, I remember saying I didn’t think much about our age gap, till I realized you had a child I was too young to have been the bio mom too.
Recently I have wondered what ever happend with you, and how whether things could of progressed for us, if i hadn’t been so hesitant back then. With time and perspective I have reflected and understand now that need to make a connection based on who you are as individual.